the frisky
When I spend the night at my guy’s place, there is no makeup mirror.
dating
I’m trying to figure out why I’ve been alone this long, because I’m kind of sick of it. (And everyone at xoJane is sick of hearing about it.)
broke
The dark side of the American Dream is that if we don’t achieve the greatness we feel, by birth, is ours for the taking, we’ve failed.
jennifer carroll
The internet is abuzz with Lt. Gov. Jennifer Carroll's idiotic comments about black lesbian women, but I'm more pissed about the shade she threw at all the single ladies.
going solo
The judicial sentence "end up alone" incorrectly lacks agency, as if a woman simply wakes up one day and discovers the other side of her bed empty. Maybe she likes sleeping in the middle?
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Apr 9, 2012 at 6:00pm | 19 comments

being alone
I declare December 31 a holiday just as fit for quiet and reflection and snacking alone as for partying until you are sick.