While my peers swooned over the New Kids, I was wondering just how to go about contacting James Caan -- in my pants.
celebrities
dating
I’m trying to figure out why I’ve been alone this long, because I’m kind of sick of it. (And everyone at xoJane is sick of hearing about it.)
Marci in
Relationships,
dating,
single ladies,
okcupid,
men,
divorce,
weight,
depression,
rape,
clubbed thumbs,
age,
sexuality,
health
Mar 7, 2013 at 2:00pm | 586 comments
sexual attention
I DO find sexual attention immensely validating, and that plays into everything from the way I dress to my choice of career.
tattoos
Ninety percent of the time, when I meet men in public, it starts with a conversation about my tattoos.
clothes
When I look at this photograph, I see an innocent young girl who looks stylish, comfortable and appropriate. Rules are rules, but I do wonder a little about the mindset of someone who sees anything else.
friendship
OK, so I watched the L word, love JD Samson, and subscribe to both Bitch and BUST Magazines. That doesn't mean I want to have sex with women.
reclaiming words
Sluts are FUN! Sluts do whatever they want, whenever they want, and they don't regret anything. Sluts will do a lot for a good story.
nipples
Next we'll be requiring children to wear swimsuits in the bathtub. Which, as an *almost* never-nude, I'm actually totally okay with. (Joke!)
boobs
When people discover where I work, they often ask “Would you let your daughter become a topless model?"
beauty
Holy shit, right?
sexuality
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sexuality
I don't know what I expected when I told the people closest to me. A rainbow cupcake? Nothing prepared me for people's feelings of anger, disbelief and betrayal.
bisexuality
Being the token gay is easy. Bisexuality is a lot harder.
ella henderson
I remember, as a teenager, having a disagreement with a friend of mine when I wouldn’t call myself a feminist because I said that it implied that I hated men and I was terrified of being seen as anything other than a desirable, sexual being who just loved guys.
kickstarter
Just when I thought I escaped the "Girls" trap.
crushes
Girl-centric summer camp classic "Little Darlings" was a movie I held religiously close to my heart as a preteen, but how would it look to an almost 39-year-old?
Rachel_1 in
Entertainment,
crushes,
friends,
Kristy McNichol,
peer pressure,
sex,
sexuality,
summer camp,
Tatum O'Neal,
teens
Feb 7, 2012 at 6:00pm | 39 comments
disability
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