craigslist
In the stories I had heard and read about, the women used eBay to mail the panties out. But I figured, why not cut out the shipping cost and just give them to the guy?
sex work
Laws like Hawaii's "police exemption" are yet another example of state-sponsored rape, denying sex workers the right to autonomy over their bodies in the course of their work.
sex work
porn
sex work
I did a lot of shopping, bought a lot of drugs. I made more money than I’d ever made -- or even seen -- in my entire life, and all of it cash.
strippers
When she first told me about how she planned to earn money, I was pissed, in complete disbelief and seriously worried for her safety.
in

Dec 10, 2013 at 11:00am | 119 comments

sex work
It has become kind of OK to say you did a little sex work -- if you put it down to fun, or research, or empowerment. If you did sex work strictly for the money, you can only really admit it if you put it in the past.
sex work
It didn't hit home until a sex worker I know was assaulted by a client. And she needed help.
in

Feb 22, 2013 at 11:30am | 33 comments

kink.com
I used to look at the pride flags on top of the armory and see it as a grand victory. But I’ve long since been ashamed of myself for what I haven’t spoken up about inside those walls.
strippers
While The Lusty's mission to showcase dancers of a variety of body types and looks is great in theory, I’m not sure it was so great for business.
sex work
The economic reality is that sex work is the best (and sometimes only) option for me. It’s certainly not always the best choice for my mental health, but neither is poverty.
sex work
There’s a big difference between wearing a push-up bra to make my boobs go from an A to a C and taking that bra off and shoving my tits in some grandpa’s face.
in

Jan 9, 2013 at 5:00pm | 224 comments

porn
Kink.com claims that they go out of their way to respect model’s boundaries and ensure their safety during performances. I decided to find out firsthand.
sex work
Empowerment comes in the front door when I can make rent in a singular evening. Yet, it leaves through the back door when I blow it all on pills.
sex work
It's frustrating that the biggest days for our respective communities are really depressing.
sex work
The most powerful reaction I've heard when coming out has been, "OMG, me, too!" I've found this connection with friends I've known for years and strangers within minutes of meeting each other.
sex
Before I started doing porn at age 34, the only fat women I'd seen in any semi-nude pose (other than in museums) were those "Wish you were here" postcards with the 500lb woman in a bikini.
sex work
I’m usually the only one studying at the library during odd hours, in-between classes and primping myself for fuck sessions.
books
I would sell my vagina for a good sex work memoir.
in

Sep 4, 2012 at 3:00pm | 79 comments

dating
There's a time in a young girl's life when she is ripe for whoring. That time, for me, has passed.
craigslist
Even before scandal drew my sex work history to light, in my daily life, my coming clean -- or not -- had always been an issue.
in

Jun 19, 2012 at 10:30am | 15 comments

blowjobs
I'm a coder, a feminist, an atheist, a musician, a bit of a crazy cat lady and a damn good cook. I'm also almost exclusively known for my blowjobs, at least on the Internet.