marriage
How is it possible to marry someone without a test drive of ye olde chemistry? What if he turned out to be a slobbery kisser and a dead fish, and I was stuck with him for life?
books
An interview with Deborah Feldman, whose memoir "Unorthodox: The Scandalous Rejection of My Hasidic Roots" shine a spotlight onto an insular community of the ultra-devout.