I feel bad about my body a lot. I will try not to talk about it too much, but if we are together for like a year I'm probably eventually going to say something about how fat I feel.
Throughout my life, I've experienced deep love and deep rejection from women.
you are the advice columnist
Because sometimes I think I might be doing it wrong. Either that, or all this annoying flaky friend-fade-out business is just a California thing.
Doctors are suddenly very interested in my personal life the minute I tell them I am not worried about preserving my fertility.
the frisky
I’ve fostered toxic friendships with all the classic “types” that my friends have dated (and regretted dating): the manipulator, the sad sack, the emotional vampire, the drama magnet, the mean girl.
This girl wanted to do something nice for her boyfriend, so she posted about it on AskReddit. Uh-oh.
In many ways, our best friends are our first loves, so here are some of my favorite platonic love stories.
Being friends with the women I'm attracted to is not a duty; it's a privilege. I don't hold them responsible for their own non-attraction to me, or privately begrudge them dates with others.
Women’s friendships, especially in adulthood, are perhaps the most complicated, peculiar and delicate match-ups of all.

Jul 20, 2012 at 3:00pm | 56 comments

embarassing pictures from my youth
Have you ever had a friendship that took over your life?