cps
You feel responsible for the kid you see in front of you, the kid clearly suffering from a lifetime of abuse and neglect, this kid whose life might have maybe been different, if only. You play “if only” a lot.
child abuse
I'm only now speaking publicly about why I wrote the vicious obituary. Even in death, this woman still gives me nightmares.
kids
The idea that there are 16,000 foster children in NYC alone, each as unique and precious as my foster son, each needing stable, loving homes both temporary and permanent, actually hurts me when I think about it, makes it hard to breathe.
in

Sep 28, 2012 at 2:00pm | 165 comments

foster care
Discussing kids as being damaged makes it sound like they’re a chair partially eaten by termites, or a scratch on a car bumper. Kids aren’t objects which can be repaired or ruined for good.
foster care
Nothing standing between me and a foster kid except 30 hours of training and a GIANT stack of paperwork!
in

Jul 27, 2011 at 3:02pm | 0 comments

foster care
Nothing standing between me and a foster kid except 30 hours of training and a GIANT stack of paperwork!
in

Jul 27, 2011 at 3:02pm | 0 comments