dating
I can't think of a single person I've broken up with that I'm legitimately "over" in the sense that I can still think about them without feeling a bit gut-punched.
relationship violence
At 21, I was a grown woman, according to me, and as such I should have been able to handle an ex-boyfriend who had a "dark side" he repeatedly claimed was all my fault.
emotional abuse
None of that anger is directed at me any longer, but it's still simmering, and it's as hot as I remember.
alexa ray joel
49ers
Extra point! The story of how I learned to love America's (actual) favorite pastime.