I'm 18. It's not cool for a 27-year-old who you've gone on two dates with to suddenly show up on your college campus demanding to speak and sending pictures of how close he is to you physically.
stalking
ok cupid
Hey—I’m no quitter.
dating
I decided I would use OkCupid and Craigslist (yes, even scary ol’ Craigslist) so I could have dinner three times a week without opening my wallet.
dating
When did you get to the point where you thought, "NOOOOOOPE," and mentally moonwalked out of the room?
dating
I’m trying to figure out why I’ve been alone this long, because I’m kind of sick of it. (And everyone at xoJane is sick of hearing about it.)
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Mar 7, 2013 at 2:00pm | 586 comments
anonymous single guy
Sometimes you choose to have sex even though it's a terrible fucking idea.
oral sex
They don't come right out and refuse to go down on you. They just never, ever take the initiative.
anonymous single guy
I promised myself when I started dating again I would always be honest about my intentions. The policy seemed easy enough, if only because people rarely ask difficult questions early on.
twitter
It's not you. It's your tiny hashtag.
dating
That romantic in me? The one who tempered her reasonable expectations about dating with the odd lingering fondness for kismet and destiny? She was killed by online dating.
"You Are Unattractive:" The Message That May Finally Be The Nail In The Coffin Of My OKCupid Account
pubic hair
I run through the list of possible alternatives: I can feel your moods? foods? cubes? nudes? glutes?
casual sex
AKA the state one enters into when you have sex with a man who might previously have considered you a potential romantic partner but now considers you a casual sexual partner.
ihtm
It has nothing to do with skin color and everything to do with cultural upbringing. But if we’re going to talk about stereotypes, then I will have to declare from personal experience: Asian men are the best ones to date.
consent
She was legally an adult. It was clearly consensual. Yet I absolutely could not get over it.
dating
File under: Willing to do anything to meet Mr. Right
dating
Plus one more: I'm not cut out for this bullshit.
older men
Has anyone dated a man old enough to be your young dad?
dating
On Twitter last week, lots of people contributed their dating deal-breakers. Judging by that, most deal-breakers are pretty shallow.
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Jul 3, 2012 at 11:00am | 309 comments
dating
Don’t I deserve a little time to be single and unafraid and strong and independent and all those other things Kelly Clarkson sings about?
aaron sorkin
There's nothing like watching an evil version of yourself on HBO, fictionalized as a ruthless, corrupt, sexually harassing, complete and total bitch.
condom
He waited until he was putting on a condom to inform me that he’d “never done this before.”
online dating
I went on HUNDREDS of dates that summer and met a handful of people I could even tolerate for an hour, much less wanted to see again.
