My boyfriend was a flirt, but could he actually be sleeping with someone else? And if so, why was I the only one who couldn’t see it?
One of the bad choices in my two-year long foray into all things stupid included meeting my affair partner at my place of business after hours.
married men
He pulled his hand out of his pocket and no longer had a wedding ring on.
checking email
I didn’t really have to see my ex write things like, “I want to put my tongue in your ass” to a 23-year-old escort, but I did.
in a relationship
My boyfriend's fling is stalking me and putting my information up online.
sex addiction
I never set out to break the girl code, but my habits won over my morals and with every drink, my inhibitions loosened.
Saying that “all men cheat” lets men off the hook and reinforces untrue stereotypes about male and female sexuality.
cheating songs
Maybe those ARE the best songs about cheating cheaters ever, but I think we can do better.
Going down on my boyfriend is not an appropriate way to say "Thank you" for a job opportunity I've provided you. Just FYI.
I've been in a committed relationship with a married woman for three years as of next month.
open marriage
Perhaps I have this wrong, but I’ve always understood cheating as behaviors outside a relationship conducted without the knowledge and/or consent of your partner.
One of my and Sean’s agreements is that we don’t hide our stupid little crushes from each other, because hiding it is what seems to give it power.
You don't have to police the criminally stupid, they'll eventually do the work for you.

Jun 12, 2013 at 10:30am | 90 comments

I thought of the whole affair as an unfortunate experience, one that I was unlikely to have to deal with again. I was wrong.
Since the quest for a conventional relationship was clearly not working out for me, I decided in a moment of low self-worth, that I was going to actively seek out married men.
I’ve been happily married for five years and the sex with my wife is great, I just gave into an impulse.
I wasn’t cheating on you, I was cheating on a system which is fake and outdated.
Jezebel recently published the name and photos of the "woman who broke up Kim Gordon and Thurston Moore." I don't buy that.
Being in love isn’t an option. You wish it was and you would love to say that your relationships could last more then a night, a week, a month, a year but that’s not your reality.
You have to understand that I wasn’t always like this.
ashley madison
I am in a 17-year-old marriage which is practically sexless. I wish I could blame this on my husband, but the truth is…it’s my fault.