anonymous single guy
Sometimes you choose to have sex even though it's a terrible fucking idea.
anonymous single guy
I promised myself when I started dating again I would always be honest about my intentions. The policy seemed easy enough, if only because people rarely ask difficult questions early on.
casual sex
AKA the state one enters into when you have sex with a man who might previously have considered you a potential romantic partner but now considers you a casual sexual partner.

Mar 22, 2013 at 1:00pm | 369 comments

"Oh, that's so easy," you may say. Did you see the "everyone feels good about" part?
booty call
ask emily
This guy probably sucks. Nothing against him, but like 90 percent of people suck, which you rapidly realize if you spend any time on the dating scene. GOD, everyone SUCKS!
personal memoir
Did you know that the very first thing any man says to me is: "Are you going to write about this, and please don't use my name"? Did you know that this drives me absolutely crazy?
friends with benefits
Rocco was my fake boyfriend; he served all the same functions that a real boyfriend would, minus the commitment.
anonymous single girl
More coke, forgetting to eat, heroin, some lesbian stuff, becoming best-friends with some of the finest bartenders in town, more forgetting to eat, a guy with a really weird dick and a few declarations of love.
casual sex
I love sex. It’s fun. And because I love you, my daughter, I want you to have the same delights in life that I do.
I was going to hold out because girls who put out don’t get boyfriends.
white guys
I can’t remember a time when I wasn’t attracted to someone of the opposite sex because of their race. But by the time I got to an age where I actually could regulate ass, all of them happened to be black.
casual sex
Single Guy is a newly unattached 30-something living in New York City. These are his real journal entries.
casual sex
My belief system of waiting to lose my virginity had landed me with a total loser for almost three years, so maybe it was time to try the complete opposite. I enjoyed sex. Why shouldn’t I have more of it? With a variety of people?
casual sex
By "casually dated," I mostly mean "made out with strangers and had sex with some of them."
casual sex
When I was a college student, I used an email that was traceable enough that I was blackmailed by a guy who threatened to put posters all over my campus with my picture and saying what a SLUT I WAS if I didn't meet him!
anonymous single guy
Three events over the last two weeks have led me to make this my final journal entry.
thought catalog
First, you have to release the shame about casual sex. “Just sex” is an awesome thing.
anonymous single guy
You can and should always be able to stop a hook-up you don't want to have.