dating
I feel bad about my body a lot. I will try not to talk about it too much, but if we are together for like a year I'm probably eventually going to say something about how fat I feel.
condoms
Never did it occur to wonder why it was that I was so often the sole person responsible for insisting on safe sex, why I was positioned repeatedly as the condom police, posed at the entrance to my vagina with a whistle and a handheld stop sign.
fat fitness
touching
Men can’t understand the threat a woman might feel from a simple touch.
oversharing
Do you think I'm an oversharer? Oh, yeah? Well, check out all these sexy boundaries!
in

Sep 16, 2013 at 9:00am | 202 comments

pregnancy
The last thing a pregnant woman wants to hear is that you think she’s looking big.
weight
BREAKING: It turns out YOU DESERVE TO ESTABLISH HEALTHY BOUNDARIES and to HAVE THOSE BOUNDARIES RESPECTED. Really!
you are the advice columnist
How do I tell him nicely that I don’t want him coming around (particularly with his cat) , calling me at 11 at night, expecting us to be BFF’s etc.
boundaries
After a bit of cursory searching, I found the key: a poster offering $200 for someone to accompany him to his law school formal.
doing too much
I stopped keeping a calendar when I ran out of room to write down commitments.
boundaries
Though most people still refer to a person they met in school as their “best friend,” more and more people seem to be relying on their colleagues for input on the day-to-day drama of boyfriends and “Parks and Recreation.”
baller
If you are related to me by blood or marriage, this isn't for you. Otherwise, enjoy the details of my real life sex fantasies!
boundaries
Should I blame my swollen glands, achiness, lethargy, fever and chills on That Guy Who Licked My Feet the other day?
in

Jun 1, 2011 at 9:02am | 0 comments

boundaries
Just kidding, I'm actually terrible at this. But maybe we can figure it out together?
boundaries
I admit it looks weird, and makes me cringe a little at first. But as someone who actually grew up on the end of a leash, I can only be grateful.
advice
All I want for Christmas is to know how much to tip the awesome people in my life.
boundaries
being inappropriate
People often seem surprised that I am willing to discuss my rape in a public forum. What they don't know is that I will not miss one opportunity to talk about my rape to someone who is interested.