food
Anything that could be classified as "junk food" could not be eaten (or even carried) in public. Eating alone, in fact, behind closed doors, was preferable whenever possible.
in

Nov 8, 2012 at 3:04pm | 640 comments

bodies
Did I ever tell you guys about the time I was hooking up with a guy who took it upon himself to shake my stomach fat while informing me that he liked "my jiggly belly"?
plus size
I'm just fine with the way my body looks and feels at this moment. What makes me hate myself is not being able to fit into clothes -- my own and those in stores.
in

Jan 30, 2013 at 12:00pm | 503 comments

body image
If you're going to street harass me, at least say nice things.
fat
Britton Delizia has had ENOUGH of the oppression of slender, fit women. And she's doing something about it!
in

Dec 5, 2012 at 9:00am | 402 comments

body image
Fat-shaming has been a popular topic on this site, and I’ve avoided the topic like an out of state parking ticket, but I have something to say, now.
hair
A hairstylist telling you that a certain haircut won’t work on you because of the “shape of your face” is a myth just as a great as the idea of “dressing for your size.”
in

Nov 19, 2012 at 3:00pm | 317 comments

pregnancy
anarchy
Why not, for one week, just put what I want in my mouth without any of the rules, restrictions or calculations? Could I even handle the freedom??!?
in

Mar 21, 2012 at 3:05pm | 265 comments

body image
UGH, I’m getting all serious again. Sorry, but stomach flu just isn’t conducive to beauty writing. This will be brief!
body image
I don't know that we can exclusively blame magazines for making women hate their bodies. (Although they certainly don't often help.)
in

Apr 23, 2012 at 2:00pm | 246 comments

body image
The box springs collapse, and our bed frames splinter. Sometimes his pants rip. We overeat ice cream. I worry deeply about our future, our finances and our fitness.
in

Oct 31, 2012 at 9:00am | 246 comments

body image
I offer the following proposal: maybe we should just stop trying to be hot.
diets
Just a few weeks ago, I had a conversation with my partner in which I'd announced that I had decided that I was going to accept my body at this larger size if it meant that I could just live my life eating normally and he was fucking elated. Now I'm all like, "Uh, nevermindsies."
in

Dec 4, 2012 at 12:00pm | 233 comments

weight
I’m not allowed to utter the words “run” or “exercise" without eliciting an intervention. Can I preserve my heart, please?
fat
No, I am not uncomfortable. This chair might be uncomfortable, and your assumptions might be uncomfortable. But I am just fine.
in

Dec 10, 2012 at 3:00pm | 208 comments

body image
Here, let me say for everyone, for always: Yes, I know I’m bigger than she is. You don’t need to tell me.
body issues
Slowly, I began to feel uncomfortable eating junk around Nick. He would be slamming down protein shakes, growing bigger and stronger, while I remained small and soft and unsure of what to do with this vast difference in body type.
psychiatry
If I wanted to go to a professional regarding the amount of jiggle I'm packin', I would have chosen a trainer or nutritionist, not a psychiatrist.
fitness
I normally write articles about the things I do in my kitchen, or my orgasm anxiety, but today, I am about to whine for the next 1,000 words about my ass.
in

Apr 17, 2013 at 1:00pm | 188 comments

fashion
Lashing out at thin women to tell them they aren’t wanted isn’t the way to address disparities and prejudices in fashion.
fat
I'm having trouble seeing these so-called "plus sized" Swedish mannequins blowing up on Facebook as some great leap forward in body acceptance. I KNOW, I'M SUCH A GRUMP.
in

Mar 20, 2013 at 2:00pm | 171 comments