bisexuality
“You’re dating a girl? That’s weird, because you look like you’d be really good at giving blowjobs.”
boyfriends
Being friends with the women I'm attracted to is not a duty; it's a privilege. I don't hold them responsible for their own non-attraction to me, or privately begrudge them dates with others.
dating
At least when you’re dating a woman you can act as crazy as you feel.
bisexuality
I know a hell of a lot of people who maintain separate profiles based on the gender they're hitting on.
bisexuality
How can I work against the objectification of women in media when my own libido seems totally onboard with it?
bisexuality
I’m not always a fan of hashtag campaigns, but in this case, too much fun was going on for me to maintain my usual stodgy position on such matters.
bisexuality
When it comes to my own queerness, the idea of waking up one day and finding myself unable to be attracted to an entire slice of the gender pie -- no matter which slice it is -- frankly terrifies me.
you are the advice columnist
I really don't want to offend him; I get the feeling he's from a religious family.
bisexuality
I have just started exploring this aspect of my sexuality and I feel like a creepy old lady trying to have a threesome.
bisexuality
Campus Pride just released its list of "Top 25 LGBT-Friendly Colleges in the U.S." But that doesn't mean anyone's off the hook.
the good men project
Growing up, the television and the community sold me a binary world view: gay or straight. There were only two viable options, and I secretly dreaded the eventuality of having to pick one.
bisexuality
I have fielded every question in the book, from those who were genuinely filled with innocent curiosity to those who thought asking me to describe my sexual habits was a smooth way to get me into bed.
bisexuality
Gay magazine The Advocate did a write-up of the 15 gayest cities in America, and people are piiiissed -- mostly because its criteria rely on a very specific stereotype of LGBT person. Seriously, I refuse to believe the Whole Foods in Tacoma, Washington makes it a gay mecca.
bisexual stereotyping
Berkeley's City Council just approved the first official Bi Pride Day ever! I'm gonna make out with EVERYONE.
bisexuality
A year ago, researchers at Cornell paid 160 women of all sexual orientations to watch porn for an hour. I was one of them.
bisexuality
You're supposed to 'fess up before donating blood if you've had sex with any queer guys. I didn't, and I don't feel that bad about it.
bisexuality
In 2006, Mitt Romney's administration refused to publish a Department of Public Health report on bullying -- because it mentioned "bisexual" and "transgender" people.
bisexuality
It is pretty goddamn liberating to be able to sweep in, have awesome weirdo three-way sex with a couple who is already very physically in tune with each other, and then flounce out again, high heels in hand.
bisexuality
Being the token gay is easy. Bisexuality is a lot harder.