age
NO ONE should get told they look great “for their age.” Why can’t someone just look great?
in

Apr 15, 2014 at 5:00pm | 183 comments

you are the advice columnist
age
Fifty-five must be a really scary number to men because I -- seemingly overnight -- went from a dating feast to a dating famine.
age
“You look great for your age!” Gee, thanks. And then, if the person in question is lovely and self-aware, it only gets worse: “I mean—not that you’re OLD—you’re totally not—it’s just—well hey, 40 is the new 30, right?” Please stop talking.
in

Jan 27, 2014 at 12:00pm | 186 comments

you are the advice columnist
I really don't want to offend him; I get the feeling he's from a religious family.
age
Next time you ask an actress her age and she pretends she didn’t hear you, know that she is probably just looking out for her career.
in

Sep 13, 2013 at 9:00am | 122 comments

happiness
When I have kids, I'm going to reassure them that the best is always yet to come.
in

Aug 9, 2013 at 10:00am | 127 comments

jezebel
It's not like you go to bed beautiful and wake up a hag. You grow old gradually and notice every once in a while.
in

Aug 4, 2013 at 1:30pm | 91 comments

marriage
Married or single, nearly all of us are tied in emotional knots. Hooray for us.
older men
Has anyone dated a man old enough to be your young dad?
in

May 10, 2013 at 12:00pm | 315 comments

motherhood
Becoming a parent is mind-blowing for everyone, but I think it's harder when you're older because, as the British woman says in her article, you've become extremely set in your ways.
dating
I’m trying to figure out why I’ve been alone this long, because I’m kind of sick of it. (And everyone at xoJane is sick of hearing about it.)
age
Where was I when everybody decided to get their shit together? Probably drinking margaritas at a dog wedding.
in

Jan 10, 2013 at 2:30pm | 168 comments

age
Or else I'm just a huge weirdo. OH, NO, WHAT IF I'M BOTH?
age
age
I had 20 to myself, twenty years ago. I am content now to celebrate 40 and admire 20 on another generation of women.
in

Jun 5, 2012 at 3:07pm | 92 comments

age
I'm not an expert. Like I said, I'm only 22. But I've learned a few things so far.
age
This is where I get cranky and start yelling "Get The Hell Off My Lawn."
in

Sep 7, 2011 at 5:16pm | 0 comments