princesses

In Defense Of Princesses (Or Why I'm Proud to Own a Hoop Skirt)

I understand the motivation behind people’s disdain for princesses and the whole princess marketing megashark that never stops swimming and eating all of us. But princesses pretty much kick ass.
Marianne in
Beauty, princesses, disney princesses, femme skills, femme presentation, being a femme is hard effing work, Femme queer, kids, raising kids

Jan 18, 2013 at 10:00am | 198 comments

nail art

Behold, the Femme-Flagging Manicure

Unfortunately, there is no obvious way to cure the sad plight of the invisible femme lesbian short of fingerbanging your girlfriend in public. Until now.
Sarah Brown in
Beauty, nail art, Femme queer

Sep 27, 2012 at 5:00pm | 86 comments

femme queer

I Guess I'm Coming Out On xoJane: Heterosexual Awareness Month and Me

My question is this: Does six years of hetero-only banging negate the women I had sex with?
Marianne in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, Femme queer, hetero relations, heterosexual awareness month, is there even a word, passing privilege, queer, queerness, what's in your drawers does not determine whether i'd have sex with you

Aug 17, 2012 at 2:00pm | 142 comments

cocktail bar

FIND IT FRIDAY: Effortlessly Cool Androgynous Style for a "Borderline Femme-Queer Date"

Or, "how I dress every day."
Julie in
Clothes, cocktail bar, dates, Femme queer, Katherine Hepburn, Patricia Highsmith, tapas

Mar 30, 2012 at 6:00pm | 68 comments