You know how people say things happen in threes? Lately for me it has been fours. Such as this, the fourth dead bird (well, one was a wing on the street so I'm presuming) I've seen in just two days. What is this a sign of, anyone know? Also, related only in my own off mind, I'm sure: at my bday lunch the other day, Mandy and I were talking about guy time vs girl time (and understand that I think gender is quickly thankfully becoming less of a definer). I told her that I've always operated on the assumption that heterosexual guy time = hetero girl time x 3. This is how it works: If you want to say "I love you" after 3 months, he will want to say it after 9 months. If you feel a connection 15 minutes after meeting, he will feel it in 45. And so on and so forth. Now, I am not into gaming relationships, but if you are, you can use this to time your responses and let me know how it goes and whether this makes sense to you or not.