Just now (in Courtney Love's gorgeous house!) I asked him to hold this Super Plus for me while I plugged in my laptop on the way to the/COURTNEY LOVE'S! bathroom. He reached out his hand without looking up from his laptop to see what it was and all the girls in the room (Madeline has hers too, by the way -- and I'm the alpha in the relationship!) laughed. Is that mean? What would be the male equivalent? The more I'm thinking about it, the more uncool it seems. Thoughts? Examples of male-to-female analogies? Help!