You Are The Advice Columnist: She Left Her Husband to Have Sex With Me, And Now We Don't Have Sex

She always has a way of turning it around and making it seem like I'm at fault for needing or desiring sex more often.

Jul 1, 2014 at 6:30pm | Leave a comment

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I am in a dilemma. I fell in love with this girl a few years ago, and we had wild, passionate sex. About a year into the relationship, I found out she was married. She told me that one of the main reasons that she was cheating on her husband was because they weren't having sex. I gave her a choice: Leave her husband and be with me, or we couldn't be together. She chose me and the sex. Now we have sex about once a week, which is far less often than I crave or need it. I've talked to her about it.
She always has a way of turning it around and making it seem like I'm at fault for needing or desiring sex more often.
I don't know what to do. Any advice would be appreciated.

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