Dear xoJane Community,
This advice column has been pulled from the site due to concerns over the nature of the post. We recognize it was not published with the best editorial judgment, and we’re sorry. The feedback from our readership was valid and we regret the time it took us to remove this potentially harmful piece. We are working hard to continue building a community that encourages women to tell their stories and find strength in each other. Thank you for your input.
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