job interviews
The husband gets asked normal questions about work and stuff, while the wife gets grilled about whether she can “handle” high school boys and if she’s hoping to get knocked up herself.
#yesallblackpeople
And now for some reality: Yes, all black people experience racism.
atheists
Was my first attempt at making friends for our family in this new town going to be ruined by my refusal to hide the fact that we were different?
weight loss
Remarking on someone’s weight loss is a bad conversation starter, period.
rape
internships
Another part of me thinks she's being immature and if she wanted to fire me, she should have just done it by now instead of icing me out like a mean girl in high school.
feminism
It’s more than a little disheartening that a publication’s ethical principles and surviving capitalism’s demands seem to be mutually exclusive.
in

Jul 29, 2014 at 6:00pm | 25 comments

street harassment
Most of the commenters thought that I should consider myself “lucky” to be street harassed and that I should take it as a compliment because of how unattractive I am.
bisexuality
“You’re dating a girl? That’s weird, because you look like you’d be really good at giving blowjobs.”
leaning in
I think that a lot of efforts to “empower” women (or whatever group) would be much more impactful if they were turned around on men. Like, I don’t need to be empowered. I need men to stop disempowering me.
in

Jul 28, 2014 at 5:00pm | 71 comments

touching
Men can’t understand the threat a woman might feel from a simple touch.
makeup
The first time I wore makeup, I was 17, in college, and being interviewed about a graduate student strike on a local television station.
self defense
In a culture where nearly half the women have experienced violence, a different tack is needed.
ray rice
In addition to the whole “One of our teams is named for a racial slur” thing, the NFL has a culture of sexism bordering on misogyny.
in

Jul 26, 2014 at 10:00am | 50 comments

birth control
Want to talk about why you don't use contraceptives? Great. But don't make it into a value judgement on those who do.
biracial
I have to go through a “coming out” moment in every new relationship to explain my ethnicity.
beach bodies
body image
I told him no. I would not hide from my own body. I would not wear outfits to make my body more “tolerable.”
feminism
For me, anti-feminism was a phase in a process of political awakening.
overweight
Why couldn’t he just say the word FAT? What was he scared of?
classism
This is definitely NOT how affordable housing incentives are supposed to work.
bathroom
It seems when you’re in the midst of that “Everything is perfect, I’m perfect, you’re perfect” stage of a relationship, nobody poops.
pets
Adding a member to your family –- yes, even a dog –- is a personal decision and it’s no one’s business why you make the choices you do.