FIND IT FRIDAY: "The Glamourpuss Version of Pants and Flats" For Our Resident New Mom

Apparently f*ck me pumps don't feel so good paired with a Baby Bjorn.

Apr 13, 2012 at 12:00pm | Leave a comment

Help Julie!

I need a mom makeover. Don't get me wrong, staying fabulous and stylish is still very important to me, but on days when I am lugging little man around I just cannot justify heels and pencil skirts. What's the glamourpuss version of flats and (ugh) pants?

Emily

Yesterday Emily's therapist told her that she "looks like a mom," something that no new mother actually wants to hear.

"What does that mean -- sleep deprived?" she asked.

More like pants-clad. Since the tiny boss came into her life, Emily has swapped her usual pinup style for cigarette jeans and ballet flats and personally, I don't miss the daily dresses and skirts. 

Her new look is less overtly feminine and more relaxed -- even if she's feeling the opposite. Now that "baby-proof" is more important than "bangable,"Emily has to redefine what makes her feel attractive and comfortable, but that doesn't have to mean skimping on sex appeal.

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Look at Gwen Stefani. She's kept her signature red lips and peroxide hair intact even after the arrival of two babies. And Christina Aguilera rarely covered up her clevage as a new mom. I'm convinced Emily can still maintain some of the sexy retro glamour that she so loves.

An easy way to translate her favorite pre-baby looks into something more practical is by adding some cute cotton tops like Gwen's striped tank to her roster. She can pair these with a few comfortable, washable pants (which happen to look awesome) every day. It's no secret that I hate skirts. Emily could also reverse the look by wearing printed skinnies -- pefect for hiding baby stains -- and a basic tee.

As for footwear, I'm really feeling the nude ballet flats she's been seen in lately. For more support, she could try a pair of Supergas, a grownup alternative to classic Converse kicks. I love the platform version for extra height, which makes everything look more put together.

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Belle by Sigerson Morrison Flats, $195: These offer the perfect solution to open-toed shoes -- something I'm rallying against this spring, and look just sexy enough.

Levis Bold Curve, $47: Like the Lululemon leggings of denim, these skinnies make everyone looks better from the back.

J Crew Tee, $40: This cotton tee is slouchy without being sloppy, and it works with everything -- easy.

Topshop Scallop Top, $30: On days when you need some attention (the good kind), this demure tank makes cleavage look classy.

Topshop Burnout Tee, $20: This super-soft worn-in tee is easy to throw in the wash when the little one makes a mess.

Delias Skinny Jeans, $40: I love the tiny rosebud print on these skinnies, perfect for hiding stains.

Now, what do you think of these looks? Would you wear them, with or without baby? Did I forget something that all new moms need (aside from extra sleep)? Tell me!

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