Since I'm a visual person I hardly ever remember the album title but I just remember what the album art looks like.
I remember the very first time I fell in love.
It was the era of butterfly clips and stackable glitter pots
(which broke and never quite screwed back together correctly). I walked over to
Kmart to get some Little Ceasar’s pizza and look at makeup and magazines;
Kmart was the biggest store in town, and they had a makeup aisle of middle
It’s where I saw it: CoverGirl Lip and Cheek Stain.
A big, fat, translucent stick of colour, it went on light and
stayed there for hours, giving the most subtle, fresh hint of colour--like when
it’s windy outside, or maybe you’ve been out skiing, or briskly walking, oh,
and also you’re in love or something gross. I got it in Peach, and wore it
everyday until, one day, years later, that horrifying realization when you twist
a stick up, and it FALLS OUT. L'horreur!
I mourned the loss of my perfect blush. I have a rather tricky
skin tone (read: Gollum skin), so finding a blush that doesn’t look comical is
tough. How to get that perfect peach?
I worked at a craft store at the time, and after experimenting
cosmetically with the various inks and dyes, I thought about just making my own
cheek and lip stain. I had used Wilton baking gel colouring for some
Halloween costumes and for special effects in movies, so I snagged some in a
few colours (it runs about $3 a pot) and got cracking.
Fast forward about 10 years (ouch), and I’m still messing
around with melty cosmetic DIYs. I’ve perfected that peach (or Wilton had) and
started making my own lip and cheek stains. I like them for their versatility,
simple ingredients and unending colour choices.
I’m not big on
lipstick, and I can’t always find the colours
I’m looking for in lip stains. I aimed to make that sheer peach of yesteryear.
Since purple lip colours are the new hotness, I also wanted to see if I could manage
a good one. The tricky thing about a purple lip, is to have the right amount of
blue; too much, and your teeth look crazy-yellow, too little, and eh, it’s
really just pink. I tried to make purple lipstick a thing in high school, and
no one had the stones to tell me it didn’t work.
I use Wilton Icing Colors; it’s food-grade,
glycerin-based, doesn’t taste manky, and it mixes well with any kind of oil or
wax. It also comes in a plethora of colours that blend together well, and they
are available at any craft store. I grabbed Peach and Violet with the idea that
I could mix them.
If you want something quick and dirty, you can just add colour
to a favourite lip balm and leave out playing with beeswax and cocoa
butter. I have recently fallen in love
with everything Nivea, and they have these perfect little tins of lip butter in
nice scents like Raspberry Rose, and they are perfect for this lip stain.
Burt’s Bees, though more addictive than bad television, would also be suitable.
For a from-scratch simple approach, you can use oil, beeswax,
or any mix thereof. I prefer four drops of
coconut oil per one tablespoon of cocoa butter, plus a teaspoon of beeswax. Comes
out a good, blendable consistency.
I use CocoCare’s yellow
tube, because it’s the best value, and least processed. It’s a total miracle
moisturizer, and super-portable--though the tube will crack if you let it
rattle around in your purse indefinitely. Cocoa butter is a delightful
moisturizer; it’s basically white chocolate, so it smells delicious, and it’s
creamier than most oils, so it performs longer.
Beeswax can be bought in all manner of precious little bricks
and shapes indicative of a simpler, more-people-dying-of-scurvy time. It’s
available online, and I’d recommend having some on hand just in case. Of bees?
You never know. We’re living in weird times.
Beeswax is used as a barrier to
keep moisture from evaporating out of your lips, but also to control the
texture of your final product. More beeswax, the firmer it will be. Nothing is
worse that a leaky, melty lipstain in your bag or pocket, so beeswax can be
Get To It
You’ll need some way to melt your base and ensure that it’s
thoroughly mixed. I used a glass jar, and a spoon to mix, naturally.
Start with about 1 TB of your base (whether that be beeswax and
almond oil). I nuked it in the microwave at 15-second intervals; I highly
recommend this, as it can get too hot really fast, and power/microwaves times
vary wildly, so be patient using short intervals, and trust that you don’t want
your house smelling like burned cosmetics.
You can certainly use the stove-top
if you don’t believe in microwaves, but be sure to use the lowest setting and
be patient. The idea is to melt all the elements into a liquid, mix
thoroughly, and fill your desired container.
When it comes to adding the colour, the less you add, the more
sheer it will be. The more you add, the more vibrant, and the better staying
power. If you intend to use it on your cheeks as well as your lips, sheer is
better. If you want better coverage and staying power, feel free to add more.
went with 3 drops for a sheer lip and cheek stain, added to roughly 1
tablespoon of base. I would double or even triple that for a deeper colour for
lips only, but the fun thing about this stain is how customizable it is!
I did three different
colours: peach, berry and violet. I basically used each pigment out of the
bottle, and then mixed the two for funsies. I love peach with my skintone, and
I know that mixed with violet it will make a muted berry.
I was happy with all of the colours, really. I am basically
left with wanting serious, creamy purple lipstick. The drastic colour of a
violet stain was, in a word, creepy. And it didn’t wear well; without constant
re-application, it’s total drowning victim.
I think I’ll just need to invest in a serious purple lipstick.
Any suggestions on bluer ones?
Have you ever made homemade cosmetics? I totally
used to sell home-made glitter gel at raves, and once melted together a ton of
my mom’s old lipstick to make completely unwearable trash. I sold that to my little sister for some
exorbitant amount of money. Apparently $3 for frosty brown slop, crammed into a
Carmex container, is a bargain when you’re 7.