threesomes

Has A Fantasy Ever Ruined Your Relationship? (AHEM, THREESOMES)

The hot second you indicate to a dude that you think threesomes are sexy and might, in the absolute RIGHTEST of right circumstances, be open to maybe sort of VAGUELY considering having one or something like one, they will never, ever shut up about it.
Rebecca Santiago in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, threesomes, threeways, fantasies, partners, dirty talk, failed dirty talk

Mar 18, 2013 at 12:00pm | 100 comments

dating

I’m Conflict-Avoidant And So Is My Boyfriend (And It’s Cool, So Please Don’t, Like, Yell At Us About It, OK?)

Yes, it is a little atypical that my boyfriend and I don’t fight, but things have been working out so far, right?
Rebecca Santiago in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, dating, conflict, fighting, therapy

Mar 13, 2013 at 2:30pm | 79 comments

porn

Have You Ever Watched Porn With Your S.O.? It’s Logistically Difficult, No?

I’m busy trying to fix my face into an expression that could read as either horny or wary, because if he likes it, I don’t want to make him feel gross about it, and if he doesn’t, I don’t want him to think I’m into it, god, no.
Rebecca Santiago in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, porn, fantasies, awkwardness

Mar 6, 2013 at 9:00am | 73 comments

bars

What's The Most Outlandish Thing You've Ever Done To Ditch A Dick At A Bar?

Guys at bars are disgusting at least 70% of the time, right?
Rebecca Santiago in
Fun, bars, dating, pickup lines, bitches

Mar 4, 2013 at 1:00pm | 253 comments

dating

I Am Disgusting and My Boyfriend Is Freakishly Neat and What Are We Even Doing Together?

My boyfriend had 3 kitchen sponges and my hamper Is developing an ecosystem. Doomed?
Rebecca Santiago in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, dating, cleanliness, cohabitation

Feb 26, 2013 at 3:30pm | 137 comments

vibrators

“Why Is My Vibrator In The Kitchen?” And Other Housemate-Induced Rage Blackouts

It is not until you find your vulva’s second-favorite buddy in a shared space, where you blatantly DID NOT LEAVE IT that you realize life hasn’t prepared you for such a moment.
Rebecca Santiago in
Relationships, vibrators, roommates, housemates, shared living spaces

Feb 19, 2013 at 2:00pm | 253 comments

dating

No, My Ex Has, In Fact, NOT Come Out Yet: I'm Attracted To Metro Men

I tend to go for pretty-ish guys who dress nicely and, inevitably, possess characteristics considered effeminate by my friends.
Rebecca Santiago in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, dating, in a relationship, gay, metrosexual

Feb 11, 2013 at 2:00pm | 95 comments

lond-distance relationships

SPREAD ’EM FOR THE CAMERA! Or, A Less Gross Way To Say Skype Sex Is The Greatest, And I Have Tips!

Look, I don’t mean to brag, but I’m basically an expert at playing with myself in front of a laptop.
Rebecca Santiago in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, lond-distance relationships, skype, video sex

Feb 5, 2013 at 4:00pm | 52 comments

dating

So You’re Dating An Obnoxiously Sane Person And You Are, You Know, Not

The Crazy Town stuff is difficult to explain to my boyfriend. He’s sympathetic, for sure, but as far as I can ascertain, his biggest life tragedy thus far was wearing a palate expander in the fourth grade.
Rebecca Santiago in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, dating, sanity, love, mental health, depression

Jan 31, 2013 at 5:00pm | 94 comments

family

WILL F&#K FOR FAMILY: Why I Only Date Dudes With Big Bloodlines

The big sister I always wanted? Supplied by an ex. Fourth of July barbeques, sporting events, family beach trips? Check, check, and check. Buying the FAMILY-SIZED bag of Tostitos on a supermarket run -- well, you just can’t understand how exciting that is to an only child.
Rebecca Santiago in
Relationships, family, dating, daddy issues

Jan 28, 2013 at 3:00pm | 42 comments