I think because I had learned how to ask in a truly non-stigmatizing way, these dudes felt safe enough to share how they boinked a Russian hooker on a trip abroad or went through a stage in college when they, too, spent lots of time on Craigslist.

Oct 11, 2013 at 12:00pm | 455 comments

abusive relationships
sex addiction
Why people are so threatened by the notion of sex addiction that they have to make a joke of it is a question worth asking

Aug 14, 2013 at 9:00am | 76 comments

live tv
As some of you guys pointed out in the comments of an older article, I was a punkass bitch for not going on MSNBC when Melissa Harris Perry invited me last year.
sexual violence
My own emotional response to the photos was not immediately one of anger and outrage. It was something else. Even after reading the headline, my emotional response to the images remained complicated.
Today, or sometime around today, is an anniversary that I felt in my body before the why came to mind. Around this time, in 2010, a good friend of mine took her own life. She was 27 years old.
Want to know what it’s like to live on food stamps? Ask the 46 million Americans who do it everyday, not as a “challenge” or for publicity but because they can’t afford food.

Dec 3, 2012 at 11:00am | 182 comments

“Broke” is a relative term. Certainly, I could have a lot less. I could have not just paid my bills. I could have not just gotten my hair colored -- at Bumble and Bumble, no less.

Nov 29, 2012 at 11:00am | 272 comments

family drama
And I think I'm all right with that.

Nov 22, 2012 at 2:00pm | 15 comments

In the age of the Internet, especially, when everything may be recorded and nothing is forgotten, I think it’s time that we, as a society, broaden the spectrum of who constitutes a good employee.

Oct 9, 2012 at 4:30pm | 55 comments