I felt precisely the same way I did before I downloaded a bunch of apps that judge your face and rate your physical beauty.
I'd never noticed before that I had been doing most of the heavy lifting when it came to dating. But when I tried to let men take the reins, they took it as rejection or disinterest.
Pulled directly from my "Do Not Want" Files (The Prude Collection) comes Glance, an app that lets you watch yourself have sex during the act, from a variety of angles, while wearing Google Glass. Agghhhh!

Jan 25, 2014 at 11:00am | 36 comments

I realized that I was justifying unhealthy compulsions because they were wrapped up in science and presented on legitimate health sites. These are the ones I gave up and why.

Jan 19, 2014 at 3:00pm | 166 comments

There are two ways of fumbling flattery: the compliment relies on an insult to others, or the compliment includes a dig at the person receiving it (example: "you look great for your age!").

Jan 11, 2014 at 11:00am | 513 comments

bad habits
I wish it was just standard sexy dude stuff like chopping wood and getting worked up about people winning sports matches on behalf of your favorite city, but it’s a little worse than that for me.
secret dummy
Or all the things I’ve never read, watched, or understood, but apparently should have.

Dec 8, 2013 at 11:00am | 330 comments

I want to date people within a decade of my age, and the suggestion that I simply must expand my pool of prospects to secure a man AT ANY COST is insulting.
high school
Wrapped up in a youthful mythology that involved me being burned by rejection and rising from the ashes as a fly piece had clouded the reality: I was just a standard awkward teenager who no one wanted to bang.
digital footprint
I just play one on the Internet: the problem of the digital footprint.